Special Post by Johanna Quinn, JQ Fitness
What is it with us women anyway? When did we begin to develop such a destructive relationship with food?
What is it with us women anyway? When did we begin to develop such a destructive relationship with food?
Seriously.
Let’s have a chat, shall we?
I was working with one of my personal
training clients this morning. She is an amazing woman. She looks great. She is
strong and lean, but clearly does not see the same person I do when she looks
in the mirror.
I kick her butt twice a week at 6 in
the morning and I mean kick. her. butt.
When I greet her she is already soaked
in sweat from the 30 min she does 'prior' to "warm-up" on the
treadmill. She has to get her "cardio" in, she says.
She is driven, works hard & long
hours, and has a demanding job, but is determined to carve out time each day to
exercise. I admire her discipline.
I have been working with her now for
about 6 months. She surprised me when she said at our previous session that she
wanted me to take her measurements etc.
So...this morning I showed up with
the scale and tape, which always makes the female population moan and groan (it’s
amplified at 6 in the morning if you were wondering). Her body fat read 28%.
She was horrified and remained bothered for the rest of our session together.
We began to talk nutrition. I used my favorite line "you can't out-train a
bad diet". You can't trick your body. It’s too smart for that. She chimed
in, "I don't understand, its not like I eat a lot of fat - how can it be
so high??" (FYI- being a trainer for 17 years, I hear this all. the. time.)
See, us ladies have such a negative,
twisted view of food. We see food as an enemy. We feel a sense of pride when we
'skip' a meal or choose a low-fat/low-calorie snack. As if we are winning this
big battle against the big, bad, ugly enemy we call "food"…
Let’s Get Real…
Sadly, I feel like I am describing
many, many women.
Maybe even you.
I get it.
I can remember coming home one day
from high-school. I probably hadn’t eaten most of the day. Maybe some caf fries
for lunch or maybe just a muffin for breakfast. (Yikes, I know now, but didn’t
at the time).
I grabbed a bag of opened chips from
the pantry. I probably ate most of the bag. My dad came into the room and said
"Johanna, you better stop eating those chips. You don’t want to get fat do
you?" I'm pretty sure I ate the whole bag just to spite what he said.
I love my dad. He meant well. I don't
have “skinny” genes and he knew it.
If you are a woman reading this I am
sure you have a similar story: Someone trying to be helpful and well meaning,
but who, with a few misguided words, creates the totally wrong connation with
food.
The “Skinny” on Fat
Lets set one thing straight.
Fat doesn’t make you fat.
Any one who lived through the
'fat-free' fad in the 90's can attest to this. Remember feeling so proud for
purchasing everything fat-free? Even mayo??
Sadly, our waistlines kept expanding.
Fat is not the problem.
My dedicated client has a 'fat-free'
diet (pretty much). She read off her daily food consumption to me. "It’s
more or less the same thing everyday," she says.
Her vice?
Those nasty flavour packets filled
with artificial sweeteners that turn your water flourescent.
and...
crackers.
yep. crackers.
fat-free wheat thins, to be exact.
Ok. So let’s break it down. We know
that fat doesn’t make us fat. Still not convinced? Ask a farmer what he feeds his livestock to fatten them up - and quickly.
Its not eggs, mayo or protein shakes.
Its grains: mainly corn and wheat.
Enough said…
Time for an Overhaul
Ladies, its time to re-wire our
brains!
If your body is craving something:
junk, crackers, fruit-whatever. It’s a sign!
You see - our bodies are pretty
amazing. If you have ever trained for a sporting event, marathon or triathlon
you really know how amazing the body really is.
But.
It does need proper fuel, not empty
calories. Fat-free, calorie-free, taste-free - whatever.
Fat-free foods are void of nutrition. Therefore, increasing cravings (which is the last thing
we need - seriously). They also leave us wanting more, so we typically
overindulge. (Artificial sugar is a whole other topic, lets save that for
another day)
Moving forward from today, let's
start to have a positive relationship with food. Food is your friend! Your body
needs great, wholesome foods to keep up with your dreams and aspirations.
Looking Ahead
Here are a few tips to figure out
which foods YOUR body fuels really well on. And yes, everyone is different.
What works for your hubby may not work at all for you.
- Start tracking your eating and drinking over a few days.
- Pay close attention to your cravings (its your body's way of talking or screaming at you)! What are you craving? What time do you crave it at?
- Ask yourself a few things. - Am I stressed? Am I drinking enough water? -Have I had enough protein today?
- Look at your breakfast. I find that if I don't fuel myself enough at the start of the day I end up craving sweets and carb rich foods mid-morning or late afternoon.
Alright. So let’s loosen up! Enjoy
life and for my sake and yours - live a little! Eat the cake and skip the
crackers!
Cravings often mean your body needs
more protein, more food, water or sleep! PAY ATTENTION! Your body is not only
incredible, but also beautiful - no matter how much fat or how many calories
are in your food.
Nourish your body, and be the Beautiful You that you
were created to be.
